Those who insist on being in relationships in order to be happy have always annoyed me. When others told me that falling in love with someone was a part of being fulfilled in life, I used to despise it. It’s true that falling in love is wonderful. It is, without a doubt, one of the most extraordinary experiences a person could possibly have. It is not, however, the secret to happiness in life. I don’t require the company of a man to feel complete. Nobody should ever be able to make me feel less than perfect on my own. I despise all the girls who believe that to be worthy of living, they must have a man. I feel awful for a lot of women who believe their sole purpose in life is to be linked to a man’s arm. I can see why someone would believe that. I can’t bring myself to respect it, though. And I’ll never feel like that again. I despise the notion that so many people believe they can only be happy if they are in romantic relationships.
Don’t get me wrong: I think it’s great. Love is a magnificent thing. It’s incredible and lovely, especially when it’s pure. Love can be the one thing that everyone aspires to achieve in life. Love, on the other hand, does not necessarily take the romantic shape. Love can also refer to self-love. Love also entails doing whatever it necessary to look after yourself and ensure your happiness. Love does not necessarily have to be expressed in the presence of another person. Love is a feeling that you can enjoy on your own.
That is why I have always made it a point to be a strong and self-sufficient lady. I work alone to achieve all of my objectives and dreams. In addition, I recognize that my goal must come at the sacrifice of my well-being. Furthermore, I am aware that success necessitates sacrifice. But none of that bothers me. After all, I’ll always choose to prioritize myself. That’s why I’m not looking for a man who will make me feel complete. That is something I am entirely capable of accomplishing on my own.
That isn’t to say that I am not looking for love. Regardless of all I’ve said thus far, I still want to fall in love with someone. It’s critical that you don’t get me wrong on this one. My concept of love, on the other hand, does not include being with someone to whom I can attach. Being in love with someone does not imply that they do everything for me. It’s the complete polar opposite. True love, in my opinion, can only exist when two individuals work tirelessly to be one other’s life partners.
I am never going to be willing to compromise my goals and dreams of being in a relationship. I’d never be willing to compromise who I am in order to be with a guy. I am at ease when I am alone. I still want to be with someone with whom I can share all of my victories, worries, failures, lessons, and disappointments. That is exactly how I believe love should appear. And in that case, I don’t require the company of another person to feel complete. I’m with someone whose wholeness only adds to mine. And I believe that is the most beautiful and long-lasting type of love.
When you get into a relationship, you naturally want it to last as long as possible. And sometimes that means doing everything you can to make the connection less tense. You want to take as much stress out of your relationship as possible. And if you continue to rely on your relationship for fulfillment and completion, you will be under too much stress.
Do you want your relationship to be long-lasting? Make sure you initially find a sense of fulfillment. After that, you’re ready to find genuine love with someone who will make you as happy as you are. The two of you can then begin to grow your love as partners… as genuine equals.