Marriage is a wonderful celebration of love and life, but not only on the wedding day, the whole journey should be filled with love, laughter and appreciation.
Many people look at divorces and think it’s a bad thing, but there’s no need to get stuck in an unhealthy marriage. Many marriages end in divorce, though people have vowed to live happily ever after, and many do.
When you’re married, the thought of being with someone else doesn’t occur to you, and you have the chance to meet your true love.
Being with the wrong person could actually stop you from meeting the right person, and divorce could open your eyes to someone who would really, deeply and unconditionally love you. If you feel that your marriage has not been going in the “right” direction for a while, it is better to break it up than to try to repair irreparable damage. It could free you from suffocation and open your eyes to the possibility of a new life with someone you truly and deeply and unconditionally love.
Sometimes an unhealthy marriage forces one to neglect one’s own well-being – and constantly numbing emotional pain for the sake of another’s happiness is hugely damaging to mental health. You can focus your energy on your personal growth and focus on the positive aspects of your relationship with your new partner.
Moreover, a bad marriage can keep you away from the things you once loved, such as family, friends, and the people you loved. So your decision to continue this journey alone will benefit you – you will finally feel free and reconnect with those you loved.
You may lose your spouse, but you actually win so much more – and, most importantly, you regain your happiness and freedom. Coming out of a bad relationship is one of the most liberating feelings of all, and it’s not even worth the pain.
If you stay in a relationship with someone who constantly makes you worthless, then divorce is for you. Whether that person is your husband or your wife, your values, freedom and happiness are all defined by someone else – whether you are or they are.
Your children will be happy, and not only them, but you and your family will be happier too.
There are still many people who stay together for the sake of their children, but I think it is better if your children are in a relationship with others who cannot even bear each other. A damaged, toxic marriage is much worse for children than a divorce, and if your child yells at you and the other every night, you’re better off.
While divorce may be confusing for young people at first, it can be much better for them than growing up in an unhealthy environment.
Health will come first, not only for yourself, but also for your children, your family and even your friends and family members.
When you are alone, you can devote all your energy to improving your physical and mental health. You can start to care for your own well-being – your being and your investments in the most important relationship you have with yourself. If you divorce, instead of all the drama and confusion that comes with it, take care of yourself first and you will pay more attention to yourself along the way.
It is no secret that most married people tend to neglect themselves as we see ourselves – probably because we feel too comfortable with others and no longer care about our appearance. If you divorce, you may not realize it at first, but gradually you will become more aware of the way you look.
You invest more time in your beauty routine, improve your appearance and make you feel good. This not only helps you to improve yourself, but also boosts your self-confidence and improves your relationship with your partner.