We’ll never be able to fully comprehend the intricacies of dating. Nikki Jabs, who uses TikTok to film her dating life, sobbed because her now-ex boyfriend ordered an Uber to take her home because he was “embarrassed” by her appearance. After leaving his house and returning to her van, dejected and hurt, the woman from Michigan filmed herself sobbing.
Nikki was overjoyed when her Hinge date, Greg, asked her to a business party to meet her friends and coworkers.
She spent 40 minutes on her cosmetics in preparation for the grand opening of a retail store where he works. She went for a casual-formal appearance with a long-sleeved black crop top and high-waist rosegold pants. When she videotaped herself in the elevator on her way home, she was dressed in a crimson coat.
On the other hand, her “very lovely” partner couldn’t stand seeing her dressed up like that at the occasion.
She wrote, “He was too embarrassed to be seen with me in this apparel, so he drove me home in an Uber and skipped the opening.”
Nikki had already updated her fans on her first date with Greg, the man from Hinge.
“He seemed shy,” she adds on the audio, “so I was kind of carrying the whole conversation.”
“However, it has finally warmed up, and we are on our second drink.” “He thinks I’m the most interesting person he’s ever met, and he’s super sweet.”
As they returned to his place and he overcome his shyness, she claimed, “He stated that I was so attractive that I made him uneasy.”
When Greg encouraged Nikki to stay with him indefinitely, she characterized it as “the happiest weekend” of her life. He was oohing and aahing over her “What was it that brought me such good fortune? You’re incredible, and I feel extremely fortunate to have met you.”
The story was continued by Nikki, who lives in a van with her cat. “‘I’m not leaving,’ I declared. ‘You are welcome to remain as long as you like,’ he says. I answered, ‘Don’t tell me that because I might never leave.’ He said, ‘I’d be good with it.’”
Greg continued to profess his love for her, describing himself as “obsessed” and “head over heels” in love with her.
However, as the most recent incident transpired, it all turned into another heartbreak. People asked her for information on the event, which she eventually delivered.
“I picked him up from work today, and we had planned to go out to eat before his work function. As he got inside the car, he couldn’t take his gaze away from me.”
“Something horrible was going to happen, I had a feeling. “Why are you staring at me so intently?” I continued to ponder. ‘Oh, nothing,’ he replied again.”
“She went on to add,” she continued “‘You just look so gorgeous,’ he finally remarked. ‘Are you trying to tell me that I’m overdressed?’ I enquire. ‘Perhaps not for supper,’ he replied.”
She claims that he has advised her multiple times this week that she is overdressed and should wear a baggy sweater.
“‘Will you be embarrassed if I show up at your work function in this state?’ I stated. ‘Do you want me to go home and change?’ I inquired. I asked, ‘Do you want me to go home and change?’ He didn’t respond, so I asked, ‘Do you want me to go home and change?’ ‘I’m just in such a bad mood right now,’ he said. We were on our way to the restaurant, but I was annoyed because this had been going on for weeks.”
“At the restaurant, I told myself, ‘I’m either going like this or I’m not going at all.’ ‘So, may I call you an Uber?’ he inquired. ‘Sure,’ I responded, ‘call me an Uber.’
I returned to his apartment, where I’d been staying for the past three weeks, took an Uber back, packed up my possessions, and am now back in my van.
Nikki started pointing out the indirect indications. “It all started with a few casual comments over the past few weeks, like, ‘Why are you wearing heels?’” I enjoy it when you wear tennis shoes. Why are you wearing so much makeup? I really appreciate it when you’re being yourself.’
“He thought this was too revealing for his professional function,” she continued. “His present job is with an athleisure clothing company. He wore jogging pants and running shoes and was dressed casually.”
She’s back in her car now, having moved out while Greg was still at work.
Greg appeared to be attempting to assert control over her life, as several people pointed out. As one individual put it, “My ex-boyfriend did this to me. It has nothing to do with how you look. He felt self-conscious about something and attempted to turn it into a problem for you.”
“Another person remarked,” said another “If your wardrobe was so important and detailed, he should have made it plain. Throw him out the window.”
“I’d want to identify myself as a DV therapist. Testing boundaries is one of the ways DV escalates in a relationship. I’m delighted you’re all OK.” I have yet another book to read.
If a guy can wear jogging shoes and jogger pants, there’s no reason women shouldn’t show off her midriff with long sleeves!